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Wonderland

Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption

A Memoir by Patricia Knight Meyer

BOOK INFO

Publisher: Unsolicited Press (November 3, 2026)
Price: 24.95
Coming soon in Paperback, eBook and Audio.
Paperback ISBN: 978-1-969421-96-9
Audio Rights, YAYDNA Press
ISBN: 979-8-9940523-2-7

Awards

Short BIO

Patricia Knight Meyer is the author of WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption (November 3 2026, Unsolicited Press). Born in 1970 through an illegal adoption, she obtained her first legal birth certificate at age 47. A University of Texas journalism graduate, she advocates for adoption reform and founded YAYDNA Genetic Greeting Cards.

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Journalist, adoption reform advocate, and survivor of the Baby Scoop Era black market. Born in 1970 and trafficked through an attorney-brokered deal, Patricia was raised without a legal adoption or valid birth certificate. Her relentless search for the truth led her to both biological parents and enabled her to obtain her first legal identity at age 47.

A graduate of the University of Texas at Austin with a degree in journalism, Patricia founded the adoption blog My Adopted Life and YAYDNA Genetic Greeting Cards. She serves on the board of the National Association of Adoptees and Parents (NAAP) and Concerned United Birth Parents, keynotes at national adoption conferences, and leads memoir writing workshops. She divides her time between the Texas Hill Country and New Orleans.

Book Description

Handed over along a Texas hospital curb in 1970—no judge, no paperwork, no questions asked—Patricia grew up celebrating a made-up birthday, haunted by nightmares of “The Dark Man.” Her parents, blackmailed by the attorney they hired to skirt the adoption system, faced an impossible choice: go to the police or pay up. They paid $30,000 to keep their paperless baby.

Navigating her mother’s violent alcoholism and caring for her disabled 600-pound father, Patricia spent her childhood trying to save her saviors—unaware of the lifelong threat that haunted them: at any moment, someone could come back for their child.

At eighteen, pregnant and standing in her birth mother’s shoes, Patricia discovers a shattering secret that launches a lifetime search for answers. But it takes decades—and her adoptive mother’s death—before Patricia realizes the secret-keepers won’t live forever. Guided by her mother’s ghost, she races to uncover the truth.

Part detective story, part searing family portrait, part historical reckoning, WONDERLAND exposes what happens when maternal desperation meets need and greed, when falsified documents, dark family secrets, and systemic abuses can no longer sustain one woman’s relentless search for truth. A tumble down the rabbit hole of America’s baby trade, Patricia delivers a haunting reckoning with Baby Scoop Era exploitation that asks: as reproductive rights disappear, are we ready for Baby Scoop 2.0? 
 

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Praise & Advanced Reviews

"Meyer excavates her own identity through deep layers of trauma and trafficking, loss and longing... a coming-of-age story, a personal mystery, and a heartfelt reckoning all in one."
—Gretchen Sisson, Sociologist and author of Relinquished: The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood
"In an absorbing and fast-moving narrative, Meyer conveys the complexity of the adoptee's inner life, shaped by uncertainty, hypervigilance, and deep, hearty—sometimes incongruous—love... Survival within her adoptive home is a constant focus, and adoption is ever-present, a force that expands and contracts her world, an alternately frightening and exhilarating wonderland."
—Amy Seek, author of God and Jetfire
"This memoir unfolds with the momentum of a television series—propulsive and immersive—yet grounded in precise dialogue and careful attention to scene and setting. The writing creates a visceral sense of presence, placing the reader inside each moment as it unfolds. Balancing narrative drive with clear psychological insight, the book illuminates the complex realities of adoption, including the lasting impact of falsified records, illegal practices, and unregulated systems."
—Dr. Liz DeBetta, founder of Migrating Toward Wholeness™, author of Adult Adoptees and Writing to Heal
“WONDERLAND forces readers to confront a reality that adoption narratives often avoid: that systems built on secrecy make ordinary people complicit in harm—and leave children to carry the consequences. Clear-eyed and rigorously honest, this memoir belongs in any serious conversation about the legacy of the Baby Scoop Era."
–Julie Ryan McGue, author of Twice a Daughter, Twice the Family, and Belonging Matters”
With unswerving courage, compassion, and a commitment to discovering the truth, Knight weaves together and evokes the lived experience of adoptees, first parents, and adoptive parents. In scrutinizing the forces that shaped her life she gives voice to both the enduring wounds of adoption, the choices we make, and the transformative power of reclaiming our stories."
- Ronit Plank, author of When She Comes Back and host, Let’s Talk Memoir podcast
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"Patricia Meyer’s story is a powerful testament to what happens when identity is built on secrecy, and what becomes possible when truth is finally uncovered. Her journey from being sold as a newborn to reclaiming her legal and personal identity decades later reveals the profound impact of trauma, fear, and the lifelong search for belonging. This courageous memoir offers hope to adoptees, parents, and anyone who believes that healing begins when we dare to face the truth."
Bryan Post, an internationally recognized clinician and speaker, renowned adoption expert, best-selling author of From Fear to Love, and founder of Bondify.ai
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“WONDERLAND proves to be a once in a lifetime kind of work, staying with readers long after the last page is turned.”
— Indie Reader

Media & PodcastS

Patricia Knight Meyer has appeared on dozens of podcasts and media outlets telling the story of America’s hidden black-market adoption era — and why it matters more than ever today.

Featured Appearances include:

 

Speaking:

  • Featured Panelist, Making of Me Live Podcast Event, April 17-19, 2026, Austin, Texas
  • Workshop Presenter, Untangling Our Roots Annual Conference, “Reclaiming Your Narrative: Eight Essential Tools for Memoir Writing, March 19-22, 2026, Atlanta, Georgia
  • Workshop Presenter, Untangling Our Roots Annual Conference, Claiming Your Story Through Memoir, April 25-28, 2024, Denver, Colorado
  • Workshop Presenter, Adoption Knowledge Virtual Conference, The Healing Power of Memoir, Nov 7-8, 2023
  • Keynote Speaker, National Association of Adoptees and Parents Fall Retreat & Workshop Leader “Healing Modalities for the Adoptee Soul – Sept 15-16, 2023


NAAP Monthly Happy Hour Host

 

Patricia brings a rare combination of lived experience and storytelling craft to every conversation. Whether she’s talking about reproductive rights, the Baby Scoop Era, DNA discovery, or the long road to identity.

Speaking Topics & Podcast Interview Angles

Invite Patricia to Speak at Your Event

Patricia is an experienced keynote speaker and workshop facilitator who has presented at national adoption conferences, memoir writing events, and advocacy retreats across the country.

Patricia speaks on:

  • Black-market and Baby Scoop Era adoption
  • The DNA revolution and identity discovery
  • Memoir as healing and advocacy
  • Reproductive rights and what history tells us about today
  • Writing and publishing your own story

Social Media & Contact

www.wonderlandthememoir.com

Email:

[email protected] 

[email protected]

Instagram:

@patriciaknightmeyer

@somebodys__baby 

Facebook:

@wonderlandthememoir

@patriciaknightmeyer

TIK TOK:

@myadoptedlife

Blue Sky:

@myadoptedlife.bsky.social

Threads:

@somebodys__baby

Booking Information

To book Patricia for your podcast, conference, event, or to schedule an interview, reach out at [email protected]. She’s available for virtual and in-person engagements and is especially interested in events aligned with her November 3, 2026 book launch for WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption (Unsolicited Press).

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