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Wonderland

Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption

A Memoir by Patricia Knight Meyer

Published by Unsolicited Press

BOOK INFO

Publisher: Unsolicited Press (November 3, 2026)
 
Price: 24.95
 
Coming soon in Paperback, eBook and Audio.
Paperback ISBN: 978-1-969421-96-9
 
Audio Rights, YAYDNA Press
ISBN: 979-8-9940523-2-7
 

Awards

  • Winner – 2026 IndieReader Discovery Award – Winner True Crime
  • Finalist for: 2026 Eric Hoffer Book Award, 2026 Next Generation Indie Book Award and the 2026 Indies Today Award

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Patricia Knight Meyer was trafficked as an infant along a Texas hospital curb in 1970 and never legally adopted. She received her first legal birth certificate at 47, after a search that reunited her with both birth parents. She tells the story in her award-winning debut memoir, WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption (Unsolicited Press, November 3, 2026). A UT Austin journalism graduate, Patricia serves on the NAAP board, runs the My Adopted Life, speaks nationally on adoption topics, teaches memoir writing, and advocates for adoption reform. She has been published in Ms. Magazine and elsewhere. She splits her time between the Texas Hill Country and New Orleans.

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Patricia Knight Meyer is an author, speaker, and adoption reform advocate. She was trafficked as an infant along a Texas hospital curb in 1970. No agency. No judge. No paperwork. She was never legally adopted. She grew up with a fraudulent birth certificate and no legal documentation of who she was. The attorney who arranged her placement extorted roughly $30,000 from her raising parents over the years that followed.

Her road to true identity began at 39. She started with no original records, no known birth name, and no confirmed date or place of birth. Using public record databases, she tracked down the trafficking attorney and uncovered a biological cousin trafficked by the same man.

She reunited with both of her birth parents. Her reunion video with her birth father has been viewed more than 280,000 times on YouTube. She received her first legal birth certificate at 47. Patricia tells this story in her debut memoir, WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption (Unsolicited Press, November 3, 2026). The book arrives as an IndieReader Award Winner in True Crime, an Eric Hoffer Finalist, a Next Generation Indie Book Award Finalist, and an Indies Today Memoir Finalist. Patricia also narrates the audiobook, released through her imprint YAYDNA Press.

She serves on the board of the National Association of Adoptees and Parents (NAAP), where she hosts the monthly NAAP Happy Hour. She is connected to Concerned United Birthparents, Adoption Knowledge Affiliates, Support Texas Adoptee Rights, Saving Our Sisters, and other advocacy organizations.

Her blog, My Adopted Life, reaches a community of more than 30,000 adoptees and advocates. She keynotes adoption conferences and leads memoir writing workshops. Patricia has appeared on Al Jazeera’s The Stream and HuffPost Live. Her essays have been published in Ms. Magazine, Severance Magazine, Narrative Arc, and Kinsmen Quarterly.

Patricia left high school before graduating, earned her GED, and worked her way through community college. She was admitted to the journalism program at the University of Texas at Austin, where she graduated as a single mother. She went on to a twenty-year career in books and digital marketing. 

She is also the founder of YAYDNA Genetic Greeting Cards, cards made for the complicated joy of DNA discovery and reunion, available on Amazon.

She splits her time between the Texas Hill Country and New Orleans with her grumpy Chihuahua, Ollie. She is mom to a photographer daughter and GiGi to two grandsons.

Book Description

Trafficked along a Texas hospital curb in 1970—no judge, no paperwork, no questions asked—Patricia grew up celebrating a made-up birthday, haunted by nightmares of “The Dark Man.” Her parents, blackmailed by the attorney they hired to skirt the adoption system, faced an impossible choice: go to the police or pay up. They paid $30,000 to keep their paperless baby.

Navigating her bi-polar mother’s alcoholism and caring for her disabled 600-pound father, Patricia spent her childhood trying to save her saviors—unaware of the lifelong threat that haunted them: at any moment, someone could come back for their child.

At eighteen, pregnant and standing in her birth mother’s shoes, Patricia discovers a shattering secret that launches a lifetime search for answers. But it takes decades—and her adoptive mother’s death—before Patricia realizes the secret-keepers won’t live forever. Guided by her mother’s ghost, she races to uncover the truth.

Part detective story, part searing family portrait, part historical reckoning, WONDERLAND exposes what happens when maternal desperation meets need and greed, when falsified documents, dark family secrets, and systemic abuses can no longer sustain one woman’s relentless search for truth. A tumble down the rabbit hole of America’s baby trade, Patricia delivers a haunting reckoning with Baby Scoop Era exploitation that asks: as reproductive rights disappear, are we ready for Baby Scoop 2.0? 

 

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"Tender, funny, quietly devastating, and deeply moving, Meyer transforms a profoundly personal story into something universal. As she searches for an answer to one of life's greatest questions — what does it mean to belong? — she crafts an unforgettable portrait of a woman born through the black market adoption system. With wit and remarkable emotional clarity, WONDERLAND is a profound meditation on the ways complicated family dynamics and invisible systems of power shape our lives."
—T. J. Raphael, award-winning investigative journalist, NPR contributor, creator of Audible's Liberty Lost podcast, contributing researcher at Columbia University's Human Rights Institute - Reproductive Freedom Project
“WONDERLAND is an important contribution to everyone in the adoption world. [. . .] It vividly shows the very real consequences when bad actors exploit systemic vulnerabilities in the adoption system and—most pointedly—it provides a much-needed reminder of why transparency, equity, honesty, and adoptee-centered practices are vital. Oh, did I mention that it’s a compelling read for almost anyone?”
—Adam Pertman, author of Adoption Nation, Pulitzer Prize-nominated veteran journalist of The Boston Globe, and President of the National Center on Adoption and Permanency
“WONDERLAND is an important contribution to everyone in the adoption world. [. . .] It vividly shows the very real consequences when bad actors exploit systemic vulnerabilities in the adoption system and—most pointedly—it provides a much-needed reminder of why transparency, equity, honesty, and adoptee-centered practices are vital. Oh, did I mention that it’s a compelling read for almost anyone?”
—Adam Pertman, author of Adoption Nation, Pulitzer Prize-nominated veteran journalist of The Boston Globe, and President of the National Center on Adoption and Permanency
"Meyer’s memoir, WONDERLAND, is its own rabbit hole. Her engaging, heart-wrenching narrative takes the reader down the windy, confusing, exhilarating tunnel that is adoption and adoption reunion. She pulls no punches as she shares with courageous honesty her story as an adoptee, raised in a beautiful and brutal home, who then searches for her birth community... Through her exquisite storytelling, Meyer can take us on this profound journey holding simultaneously the beauty and pain of her life as an adoptee."
—Rebecca C. Wellington, PhD, historian and adoptee, author of Who Is a Worthy Mother?: An Intimate History of Adoption
"In an absorbing and fast-moving narrative, Meyer conveys the complexity of the adoptee's inner life, shaped by uncertainty, hypervigilance, and deep, hearty—sometimes incongruous—love... Survival within her adoptive home is a constant focus, and adoption is ever-present, a force that expands and contracts her world, an alternately frightening and exhilarating wonderland."
—Amy Seek, author of God and Jetfire
"This memoir unfolds with the momentum of a television series—propulsive and immersive—yet grounded in precise dialogue and careful attention to scene and setting. The writing creates a visceral sense of presence, placing the reader inside each moment as it unfolds. Balancing narrative drive with clear psychological insight, the book illuminates the complex realities of adoption, including the lasting impact of falsified records, illegal practices, and unregulated systems."
—Dr. Liz DeBetta, founder of Migrating Toward Wholeness™, author of Adult Adoptees and Writing to Heal
"In WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black Market Adoption, Patricia Knight Meyer, who grew up a relinquished child in the Baby Scoop Era, tenaciously interrogates the history she’s been told in a search for answers about the brutal separation from her first mother and her complex relationship with the troubled parents who raised her. With unswerving courage, compassion, and a commitment to discovering the truth, Knight weaves together and evokes the lived experience of adoptees, first parents, and adoptive parents. In scrutinizing the forces that shaped her life she gives voice to both the enduring wounds of adoption, the choices we make, and the transformative power of reclaiming our stories."
—Ronit Plank, author of When She Comes Back and host, Let’s Talk Memoir podcast
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“WONDERLAND forces readers to confront a reality that adoption narratives often avoid: that systems built on secrecy make ordinary people complicit in harm—and leave children to carry the consequences. Clear-eyed and rigorously honest, this memoir belongs in any serious conversation about the legacy of the Baby Scoop Era."
—Julie Ryan McGue, author of Twice a Daughter, Twice the Family, and Belonging Matters”
"Patricia Meyer’s story is a powerful testament to what happens when identity is built on secrecy, and what becomes possible when truth is finally uncovered. Her journey from being sold as a newborn to reclaiming her legal and personal identity decades later reveals the profound impact of trauma, fear, and the lifelong search for belonging. This courageous memoir offers hope to adoptees, parents, and anyone who believes that healing begins when we dare to face the truth."
—Bryan Post, an internationally recognized clinician and speaker, renowned adoption expert, best-selling author of From Fear to Love, and founder of Bondify.ai

Media & PodcastS

Patricia Knight Meyer has appeared on dozens of podcasts and media outlets telling the story of America’s hidden black-market adoption era — and why it matters more than ever today.

Featured Appearances include:

 

Speaking:

  • Featured Panelist, Making of Me Live Podcast Event, April 17-19, 2026, Austin, Texas
  • Workshop Presenter, Untangling Our Roots Annual Conference, “Reclaiming Your Narrative: Eight Essential Tools for Memoir Writing, March 19-22, 2026, Atlanta, Georgia
  • Workshop Presenter, Untangling Our Roots Annual Conference, Claiming Your Story Through Memoir, April 25-28, 2024, Denver, Colorado
  • Workshop Presenter, Adoption Knowledge Virtual Conference, The Healing Power of Memoir, Nov 7-8, 2023
  • Keynote Speaker, National Association of Adoptees and Parents Fall Retreat & Workshop Leader “Healing Modalities for the Adoptee Soul – Sept 15-16, 2023


NAAP Monthly Happy Hour Host

 

Patricia brings a rare combination of lived experience and storytelling craft to every conversation. Whether she’s talking about reproductive rights, the Baby Scoop Era, DNA discovery, or the long road to identity.

Speaking Topics & Podcast Interview Angles

Invite Patricia to Speak at Your Event

Patricia is an experienced keynote speaker and workshop facilitator who has presented at national adoption conferences, memoir writing events, and advocacy retreats across the country.

Patricia speaks on:

  • Black-market and Baby Scoop Era adoption
  • The DNA revolution and identity discovery
  • Memoir as healing and advocacy
  • Reproductive rights and what history tells us about today
  • Writing and publishing your own story

Social Media & Contact

www.wonderlandthememoir.com

Email:

[email protected] 

[email protected]

Instagram:

@patriciaknightmeyer

@somebodys__baby 

Facebook:

@wonderlandthememoir

@patriciaknightmeyer

TIK TOK:

@myadoptedlife

Blue Sky:

@myadoptedlife.bsky.social

Threads:

@somebodys__baby

Booking Information

To book Patricia for your podcast, conference, event, or to schedule an interview, reach out at [email protected]. She’s available for virtual and in-person engagements and is especially interested in events aligned with her November 3, 2026 book launch for WONDERLAND: Memoir of a Black-Market Adoption (Unsolicited Press).

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