Harm Unintended

Acknowledging My Birth Mother’s Angst After Reading My Last Post
Adoption Reunions: Managing Expectations, Assimilating Birth and Adoptive Families

This past weekend was a big weekend. Jerry my birth father finally met my family. In the last seven months since our reunion, he had met his grand daughter Victoria, my husband and step son, a few of my closest girl friends, even Jack, Victoria’s father, but he had yet to meet a single solitary […]
The Ugly Goat: The Importance of Genetic Mirrors in the Adoptee’s World

What if I see things in that mirror that I don’t like? Where does that leave me? Those were my fears, steeped in a mixture of insecurity and the unknown, driving up that long driveway to meet my birth father.
Adoption Reunion: Why I Celebrate My Conception Day

Through my adoption reunion, I learned that my conception took place along the banks of the San Bernard River in Brazoria, Texas.